Changes scare the hell out of me. That is by far a common theme within my life. When I moved in with my parents; I was raised by my Nanny; and I changed middle schools. I remember my first day at LBC, standing in the yard and waiting to feel comfortable. Waiting to feel like I belonged there. Scared and trembling walking into this school trying not to let any one else know the amount of fear that was growing in the bottom of my belly.
As a teenager, trying new things didn’t seem so scary because everyone did it right? Somethings were definitely questionable but I seemed to have this new-found confidence. But I was wrong it was just a different type of fear. The brazen kind. A dangerous kind. Rebellious. My biggest decision was to move to New York and it was the best decision I ever made.
In 7 years living in NY I have learned so much about myself. I got married, am blessed with a beautiful little girl, only one thing was missing…the same thing that was missing on my first day at LBC…comfort. A deep connection and personal comfort. My parents, siblings,aunts, uncles, cousins all of my comfort was in SC. I couldn’t go to my Aunt Reese’s house to get good candy or a haircut. I couldn’t bug my mom for makeup or my dad to figure out something I obviously have no clue about. Something still felt missing….
My husbands grandmother passed away recently and as we were there with the WHOLE family, a full house, my heart jumped leaps and bounds! Sitting down having a meal together and watching Little Red walk outside and play next door with her cousin (( 2 years older than her)) listening to their girlie giggles, I felt it. That need, that love, that comfort. The fear in my belly was gone, it was pure happiness. The in love butterfly flutters felt when in the arms of the love of your life. Warm Carolina air ( and pollen) blew past my cheeks into my nostrals all the way to my heart. I felt it, I knew it, it is time…
Watching as they played and giggled. Talking, sharing, and learning from one another. If Little Red said “I want Pawpaw” we would go see my daddy. If she wanted to play with her cousin, “ok go next door” we would walk over to the play area or to the house. I’ve never seen her sleep so hard.
So, I bet everyone is wondering what the point is…MOVING BACK TO SOUTH CAROLINA!!!!
I have NEVER been so happy or scared IN MY LIFE, but this feeling is too good to let go of!
I love my friends and family here.I have come to love them beyond compare. They are some of the greatest people I have had the pleasure to know and to love. They have shown unconditional support and love.Not to mention I am scared to death of not fitting in in my own home town….Essentialy I came into my own here, made my own life here…..what now….whats next…………..
Whatever is next I feel completely ready for this journey to start. I am ready to accept this new chapter…Momma I’m Comin Home!
Who says you can’t go home! The Buckingham’s are coming home!
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